Monthly Archives: April 2010

Selina the Super!

Recently I wrote a post about Spokane’s “Earth Lovin’ Hotties” over on the Spovangelist. One of our very own Shrinking Violets was nominated so many times I thought it would be a good idea to do a member profile on the woman instead. The following is paraphrased from one of Selina’s many loyal friends, and is interspersed with links and pictures from another.

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Selina Shehan has become very dear to me over the past four years. During this time I’ve had plenty of opportunity to reflect on her seemingly uncanny luck. Organizations rain awards on her blonde head; companies are down-right giddy at the thought of giving her free products; and it wouldn’t surprise me if Publisher’s Clearing House has her on speed-dial.  However, I’ve also come to see that Selina’s greatest accomplishments have nothing to do with luck and everything to do with her tenacious devotion, her rock-hard work ethic, and her boundless energy and charm.

I think it’s easy to lump Selina’s accomplishments into the luck category because she makes being an awesome person look so damn effortless.  Being the Commute Trip Reduction coordinator for her company requires hard work that closely resembles organizing a small military campaign, but you’d never know that from how smoothly Selina’s program runs. When she won the most prestigious award a CTR coordinator can win, Selina accepted it with her usual good grace.

When she became interested in longboarding, she took her helmet in one hand and her gumption in the other and marched up to the first pack of longboarders she found. Less than a year later, she had organized them into a cohesive group of state-wide members with a website, regular meeting times, and sponsored competitions!

The two loves of Selina’s life, the environment and physical activity, got married and had a baby when Selina organized Spokane’s GreenSkate to promote longboarding as an eco-friendly form of travel and exercise.  GreenSkate participated in Spokane’s 2010 Earth Day street fair and was hugely successful. Thanks to Selina’s mad grant-writing skills, she secured 100 helmets for GreenSkate give away to Spokane kids to promote safe boarding, and thanks to her networking abilities she was able to get local skate shops to donate stickers and boards as promotional items. The latest cherry-on-top was a workshop Selina taught in conjunction with GreenSkate for beginning female longboarders.

Selina is the lead vocalist for local rock band Cryptid.

None of this would have been possible had Selina sat on her laurels and waited for luck to find her. Instead, she chewed those leaves up, ate them for breakfast, and went out and conquered Spokane with little more than her striped stockings and a lot of heart. The longer I know her, the more I realize that Selina’s not the lucky one: it’s the rest of the human race that’s lucky to have her on our side.

Other fun facts about Selina:

1) She is a vegetarian.
2) She skateboards to work.
3) She runs and swims like the wind (and even manages to win medals at such prestigious local events as the Bare Buns Fun Run).
4) She owns a jewelry company called Spike and Lola, named after her viciously loyal dogs.
5) She is a Unitarian Universalist.
6) She does graphic design and illustration for renowned clients, such as Rings and Things Wholesale.

Do you know a Shrinking Violet that is doing great things in Spokane? Send your member profile to:

shrinkingvioletsociety [at] gmail [dot] com

Ladies Who Lunch – May

Join us Saturday, May 8thth for wholesome food and excellent company. We’ll catch-up with friends, meet new people, and share our plans and hopes for the future.

All are welcome.

A big thank you our very own Violet, Crystal for donating her time and talents to May’s flier. Not only can this lady make a killer vegan cheese ball, she is a talented artist too!

If you are interested in doing a flier for the months of July and August, please contact Dawn Egan at dmarie.egan@gmail.com.

Note: One World is a unique nonprofit community kitchen. Be prepared to contribute to their donation box by cash or check in an amount that you are able. Kids are also welcome – this is a family friendly restaurant. Guys can show up too, see you there!

April’s Book Club: We meet a Bold Spirit

April's Book Club with author Linda L. Hunt (center)

This month’s book club meeting was a special treat; Linda Hunt, the author of Bold Spirit not only joined us for our discussion but hosted the meeting at her spacious and inviting retreat center. Linda greeted us with a warm smile and a large pitcher of herbal sun tea as we began to assemble ourselves outside to take advantage of the opportunity to sit in her gardens with the sounds of babbling water and birdsong in the background.

Once everyone settled around the table Linda introduced herself and gave us a brief history of how the retreat center came to be. She and her husband created The Krista Foundation for Global Citizenship with a focus on service in urban America, developing nations and environmental projects. The center was inspired by these three values possessed by her daughter, Krista, who was killed at the age of 25 in an automobile accident in Bolivia. The center serves as a meeting space for the organization in many different ways, sometimes for conferences, at other times for retreats; always, I imagine, it serves compassion, generosity and love.

Our discussion about Bold Spirit had much to do with imagining the twenty-first century equivalent of two women crossing the nation by foot in 1896. Not only was this a difficult thing to wrap our minds around but equally difficult was the idea that this story was nearly lost through the silencing of it by the family.

The act of silencing stories or, more importantly, the practice of passing along family stories instead is the message Linda would like her readers to hear. She talked about the importance of finding a way to include this piece in the story. In the book’s closing Linda states that sometimes silencing of stories is done to protect a family’s image in the face of situations like abuse, alcoholism or origins of birth but that, “at times the silencing of such stories affect those who need to hear them to correctly interpret events in their own lives.”

Remember this and consider whether you participate in the silencing or sharing of your own family’s stories. Do what you can to be your family’s storyteller and please do read Bold Spirit, a story that show’s an earlier picture of our city’s history and invites us all to contribute our own.

Art at the Ruby Slipper

Anyone want to go with me (Mariah) to this reception before heading back over to Truth Lenders at the Empyrean?

Brenda Everett [Pennies and Markets]
April 30th – May 30th
Artist’s Reception Friday, April 30th, 5-8pm

A whimsical collection of woodblock prints and fiber art, Brenda’s show is a fanciful nod to nature, family, and the little moments that make life worthwhile.

Shrinking Violets Special at Area 58!

Remember our “Fall Fashion Postview” event at Area 58 last year? Well Dennis and Connie have remembered all of us and they have issued a special deal to get us to come back to the store and check out their new fashion displays.

Here is a note from Connie:

Hi All, This is Connie from Area 58—1st Class 2nd Hand. You’ve shopped/gathered here before. Dennis and I have just moved our fashion area towards the windows (great light to shop by) and added more career, casual, designer fashions to our mix. Please stop by and check out the new selection of fashions and accessories at Area 58. Sincerely, Connie Grove & Dennis Held, Proprietors

Simply bring in this coupon for 15% off your next purchase of the listed items.

Offer is good April 20 through May 2, but the sooner you get in there the better! Let us know what you find in the comments section below. Cheers, and happy local second-hand shopping!

Violets Invited to VOICES Benefit

The Shrinking Violet Society has received a very special invitation to learn more about VOICES, a local grassroots nonprofit organization that seeks racial and economic justice for underserved communities  in Spokane.

VOICES is lead by the talented Kiondra Bullock, who has a vision for offering a comprehensive mentoring and skill-building program for local teen girls called AWALL.

We are invited to attend a benefit auction for this much needed program on Thursday, April 29, 11:30 a.m.-2:00 p.m. at the Masonic Center located at 1108 W. Riverside. The AWALL girls program is designed to decrease dropout rates, teen pregnancy and juvenile delinquency among a very vulnerable segment of the population. Contact the VOICES office for additional details.

Shrinking Violet’s April Book: Bold Spirit by Linda Lawrence Hunt

The Shrinking Violet’s Book Group has chosen:

Bold Spirit

by local author Linda Lawrence Hunt

In 1896, a Norwegian immigrant and mother of eight children named Helga Estby was behind on taxes and the mortgage when she learned that a mysterious sponsor would pay $10,000 to a woman who walked across America.

Hoping to win the wager and save her family’s farm, Helga and her teenaged daughter Clara, armed with little more than a compass, red-pepper spray, a revolver, and Clara’s curling iron, set out on foot from Eastern Washington. Their route would pass through 14 states, but they were not allowed to carry more than five dollars each. As they visited Indian reservations, Western boomtowns, remote ranches and local civic leaders, they confronted snowstorms, hunger, thieves and mountain lions with equal aplomb.

Their treacherous and inspirational journey to New York challenged contemporary notions of femininity and captured the public imagination. But their trip had such devastating consequences that the Estby women’s achievement was blanketed in silence until, nearly a century later, Linda Lawrence Hunt encountered their extraordinary story.

You can find the book in the Local Interest section at Auntie’s Bookstore.  Make sure you let them know it’s for the book club so you can get a discount.

Our book group meetings usually take place on the third Sunday of every month.  However, this meeting will be on the fourth Sunday, April 25th, at the Linda Lawrence Hunt’s retreat house on the north side of Spokane!

Join us on:

Sunday April 25th
1-3 pm
Linda Lawrence Hunt’s Meeting Place (Address TBA)

Click Here to RSVP on Facebook

If you cannot make this meeting and would like to join us for our May meeting, we will be reading:

Prisoner of Tehran

by Marina Nemat
May 16th
Location: TBA

Please feel free to contact us if you have any questions or would like to recommend future books for us to read:

Becky – beckyhuss [at] gmail [dot] com
Hilary – hilwhitt [at] hotmail [dot] com
Monique – moneeeq [at] gmail [dot] com

If you would like to start a discussion or have any comments about this book, please post a comment on this post.