Monthly Archives: August 2009

Planning Meeting #3 Recap

After our last meeting when we identified the need to establish a long-range vision and mission statement, the Shrinking Violets met again on August 11th to discuss this and other topics. However, with only four of us in attendance, the decision was made to postpone discussion of our mission until a time when we can gather input from the larger group. Taylor and Crystal will be working on developing a survey to measure members’ interest in the group and reasons for being involved as a means of guiding the development of our mission and vision.

A review was made of on-going events and future events. It was agreed that existing events have been a fun and valuable aspect of participating within the group. Observations were made that future events should be scheduled as they are convenient and there is no need to make further events monthly, unless the need and interest warrants it. Upcoming events include a Drop In Art Afternoon, hosted by Taylor and Tiffany, scheduled for Saturday Sept. 19th, and a special Fall Fashion Postview hosted by Mariah and Area 58  on Sept. 21st, as well as the regular Ladies Who Lunch on the second Saturday of every month and the book club meetings on the third Sunday of every month.

Weaknesses in our communications were identified as we have largely relied on Facebook for the promotion of related events. All present agreed that an effort should be made to expand communications using avenues already available to us, such as the group email list and our blog, diamondinthebasalt.com. Observations were made that a clear purpose and direction for the blog needed to identified and that there is a desire for more regular content as well a more contributors. The possibility of a meeting with blog contributors was brought up, but not scheduled. The need to more actively communicate with various SVS sub-groups was brought to attention and in the future, organizers of said groups will be contacted directly prior to the meetings for input on the group’s activities.

Again, participation of the larger SVS community was addressed and a desire to invite new members was expressed. All in attendance agreed that outreach should be made to make members who have not yet attended an event feel welcome and encouraged to participate. Leadership opportunities within the group were discussed and needs identified. The monthly Ladies Who Lunch is in need of a regular coordinator, Mariah can be contacted for details of this position. Attending members agreed that all members are encouraged to organize events that would be of benefit to SVS and that co-planning an event would be an easy way for members to plan new events.

We sure covered a lot of ground in our meeting! Please fell free to share your feedback in the comments below. We would just like to reiterate that membership is always open and new members are encouraged to join. We love seeing new faces and meeting new people!

September Ladies Who Lunch!

Ladies Who Lunch September at:

One World Cafe

“your local and organic community kitchen”

1804 E. Sprague Ave.
Saturday, Sept. 12, 11:30-1:30pm

Interested in connecting with bright, creative, fun young women in Spokane? Join the Shrinking Violet Society for wholesome food and excellent company Sat, September 12th. We’ll catch-up with old friends, meet new people, and share our plans for the future.

*Guys and kids are welcome. Lunch is by donation with cash or check only. For questions or comments please call (509) 869-5609 or email shrinkingvioletsociety [at] gmail [dot] com for more information.

Area 58 Fall Fashion Postview

This place and it’s owners (Dennis and Connie) are so rad I wanted to do a little collective bargaining and score us a deal at this sweet vintage shop. They are giving us 15% off all our purchases for this special Shrinking Violets event.

We’re calling it a “Postview” in contrast to the “preview must buy new to be fashionable for the next season” messaging we’ve been receiving our whole lives.

I’ve been really lucky at Area 58 in the past and have found a vintage purse, a secondhand wallet, mugs, skirts, shoes, an owl potholder, lots of jewelry and I was even eyeing a desk made at Kaiser Aluminum until someone else bought it before I could make up my mind.

If anyone is interested in helping to jazz up the event (think live music and/or snacks) please let me know at shrinkingvioletsociety@gmail.com.

Meanwhile, tell your girlfriends and RSVP on Facebook at:

See you then!

A Reflection on Women's Equality Day

Feminist history.

The eyes glaze over and people start wondering how long the diatribe is going to take. But isn’t it worth remembering that there was a time in our not-so-distant past when women weren’t allowed to vote or even open their own bank accounts?

What do you have to say as a 20-something to an audience full of well-respected iconoclastic battle axes other than “Thank you for the freedom and privilege to take your achievements for granted?”

This is the question I was struggling with when asked to give a brief talk about the Shrinking Violet Society at the 12th Annual Women’s Equality Day celebration in Comstock Park.

As with too many intergenerational efforts, this request wasn’t the result of some well-planned strategy to bridge the cultural gap between the baby boomer elders and their increasingly adult children. No, it was a well intentioned last minute effort to gain some insight into “just what those young people are up to.”

And last minute it was!

I had all these grand schemes of talking about the die-hard homesteading of my great-grandmother Betsy, the 50′s lipstick iconism of my Grandmother and household matron Lily, and the Teacher-Secretary-Nurse career options for my college-educated NOW member mother. I wanted to explain the difficulty that many young people feel in handing their personal allegiances and attention over to organizations, be they private, political or otherwise.

But of course, it didn’t turn out like that at all.

My first attempt to introduce the intergenerational theme was met with bad associations from feminist philosophy of the past. I stammered a few things about our deodorant making party, our brunches, and the history of our name and sat down. Did I fail to represent young feminists? Was their understanding out there in the audience somewhere? Certainly there was curiosity and hope.

The highlight of this year’s picnic was a theatrical presentation of “That Woman & Big Noise,” an interactive play focusing on the stormy relationship between May Hutton and Emma Smith DeVoe of Tacoma who were instrumental in the success of Washington’s Suffrage movement.

Written by Sandra Hosking, noted local playwright and Co-Playwright-in-Residence at the Spokane Civic Theater, the play stars Claire Rudolf Murphy and Penny Lucas, and carries a powerful message of the need to work together to accomplish change.

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"Making friends and networking community-minded women"

[Note: This is a story by James Ziegler, a former journalist intern at the now-defunct Spokane Metro magazine. This story was to be published on the magazine's blog, but since that got forestalled we are sharing it here. Thanks to James for taking an interest in our group.]

Warm greetings are shared as Shrinking Violets trickle into One World Cafe for their monthly Ladies Who Lunch event. Young interact with older like life-long best friends. After everyone is seated, founder Mariah McKay stands to call for a round of introductions.

The Ladies Who Lunch is just one part of Spokane’s Shrinking Violet Society, a six month old women’s group that boasts over 300 members.

Photo by James Ziegler

“Our events tend to be more intimate than that,” McKay points out. It’s hard to get 300 members in any one location. Rather they are spread out over different events like Ladies Who Lunch, typically ranging between 5-30 people in attendance.

The society started after McKay noticed how hard it can be for women her age to establish a peer group in Spokane. She wanted a place for women to meet and talk about events going on around town, but she was also curious about what could happen when a group of strongly community-minded women comes together.

The Shrinking Violets may only be six months old but McKay estimates the group has already brought thousands of dollars into the local economy with their events.

“Part of our groups purpose is to build a web of community to get word out about important information more quickly,” McKay said. “I’m really in the business of creating social infrastructure.”

While most Shrinking Violets members fall between the ages of 18-35, all ages are welcome, men too. As it says on the group’s Facebook profile, “we only ask for young at heart.”

Member Profile: Vote Beth Mort!

At the last planning meeting for our orgnization, someone came up with the idea of the DitB contributors doing profiles of our members. People liked the notion of sharing our interesting personal stories to get to know each other better, so here is the first one. This is more of a plug for a worthwhile project (see below) but we’re going for it none-the-less!

Meet Beth Mort…

Photo-op at the FBC Prom Ride 2009

Photo-op at the FBC Prom Ride 2009

As you can see, Beth has a fun-loving personality and knows how to have a good time. She did a stint at the Lands Council and does countless other amazing things with her friends over at Pedals2People, Spokane’s hip grassroots community bicycling group. Because of her busy activist commitments she hasn’t yet been able to make it to any Violets events, but a Ladies Night in the (bike) Shop is potentially in the works (see end of interview).

Here we talk to Beth about an opportunity she has been nominated for on behalf of P2P. You can vote in favor of Beth for a $10,000 Grants For Change award to establish a comprehensive bike and wellness training program for youth in Spokane. You have to log in to the Nau site to vote, but they have great design principles (see: chrysalis dress) so sign in and represent!

What is the best way to help improve “bikeability” in Spokane?

I am going to give my primary focus right now as my answer.  Cyclists need to communicate with each other and discuss laws, road rules, biking etiquette, helmets, etc.  A movement is much more visible if everyone moves along together.  For cyclists, of all bents, I think that the more similarity auto drivers and pedestrians see, the better case can be made for bikeability in Spokane. For example, more people need to be confident enough to learn how to ride with traffic.  It is confusing for beginning cyclists and drivers to see some people riding on the sidewalk, and some people riding in the street.  It is even more challenging and frustrating to have riders going against traffic. Following some set of rules or etiquette makes this transition a whole lot more safe and fun, and helps set an example that bikes and cars can get along on the road.

These simple choices provide a consistent visual to the public that biking is fairly predictable and common. I realize that is a bit idealist, but even if half of the riders that are not following the “rules of the road” spontaneously began to do so, the impression about how to bike in our urban Spokane environment would be much more clear. Of course bicycle lanes and signs are important to bikeability as well. These are dependent on funding and political will so swaying those two things in some focused way is a key priority as well. My main mission is determining how we can best get the majority of cyclists to be a collective, informed group that makes a presence to the auto community.

Here are the rules I follow:

  • Ride with the flow of traffic. Don’t ride against traffic – it is really dangerous and confusing!
  • Ride in the street. Resist the temptation of the sidewalk!
  • Wear a helmet. There are a variety of fun colors available and stickers can personalize them too.
  • Be predictable. Try not to swerve. There will be exceptions like glass, other road shrapnel and potholes.
  • Use hand signals. Take your time and carefully get in turn lanes when you need to.
  • Be weary of car doors. (I was almost ‘doored’ once.) Know that drivers are supposed to leave you 3ft.
  • Don’t run red lights. Act as if you are a vehicle because well…. YOU ARE!

In two years I have only had two very minor crabby interactions.  Not a big deal.  I use routes that are designated as bike routes, like Howard Street.  I do also use some residential streets but prefer main arterials because they are generally safer. Some of the fear people have is in fact due more to perception and hype than reality.  Of course there are some horror stories out there but I know just as many or more that are auto/auto accidents.  Ultimately, we never lose risk in our lives no matter what choices we make.


What are some ways that Shrinking Violets can get involved in Pedals2People?

Pedals2People has several volunteer opportunities.  We are always looking for people who can learn the “front end” of the shop on garage nights.  This entails taking money for parts, matching people up with mechanics, helping folks get parts they are looking for, and other small tasks.  We can also use more mechanics too.

We have a number of events, mostly free tune-ups at neighborhood festivals, that we are attending for the rest of the summer and often can use extra volunteers to air tires, fix flats, run the “front end” of the event and do the tabling part of the work.  Our next neighborhood event actually is the Hillyard Festival this Saturday, August 8th from 10-2.  This is a great party all around, I love the Hillyard Community!

We also are in need of folks with website experience, secretarial experience and just an interest in helping us streamline our systems.  We are also searching for a new location that is closer to the downtown and more centrally located in general.  We have some specific parameters and could use all the help we could get trying to get the word out and have eyes looking for us.

On the end of just getting in to work on your bike, we are open at the garage (in the alley between Garfield and Scott on the South Hill off 43rd) Mondays 8-10pm; Wednesday 6-8pm.  You can rent stand space for $5/hr and use all our tools, stands, and have the help of mechanics and manuals.  We have a great program called Build-a-Beater, where you can build a bicycle from the frame out.  It costs $50 and you have about 4 weeks to finish.

We are also just trying out a Ladies Night at the Garage on the last week of the month.  My hope here is that any ladies who are intimidated because they don’t know the anatomy and vernacular of bicycles can come up and learn in a comfortable environment.  The first one we had in July was an absolute success.  We also just need to have input on how ladies would like them to run.

How did you get nominated for this grant opportunity and what would it do?

I heard about this grant opportunity from my friend Kim Powe.  Just a little plug for her…. she has co-founded an amazing website 4R Sustainability and their motto is “Bridging the gap between business as usual and the new, green economy”.  They provide some incredible services.   She is here in Spokane too!  I forwarded this on to the P2P crew and was nominated.

The grant would fund a multi-faceted bike mechanic after-school program for middle school students.  The beauty here is that a program like this would bring education, empowerment, health and just the fun of riding together in a meaningful way. The students who would participate in this program would gain great skills in bike mechanics and how to ride safely in the urban environment and then could pass this on to their community.

If this sounds like something you would like to see more of in Spokane, please take a moment and vote Beth Mort for a Nau Grants For Change award.